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I came across this video and thought it would be something many would find quite useful! I’ll have a video up very soon about some trash the dress shoots as well!

Shine on!
~Tim

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Being a wedding photographer brings such great joy to what I am blessed with. Not to mention being such an integral part of the day for all of the couples I work with. Let’s face it, they may have searched New England Wedding Photographers or Ct. Wedding Photographers or in yesterdays case, Wedding Photographers in MA. . Now here’s the thing with yesterdays wedding. Time….

 

Everything really rolled smoothly, the bride and groom had a great time, the ceremony went off with out a hitch, there was love and smiles galore… But when it came to the reception, things surely got tight. So that’s just something I feel like touching on this morning. The time that you have your reception scheduled for is huge…

 

In most cases, such as at the Publik House in Sturbridge Ma. yesterday, timing was crucial. It was a Sunday night, cocktail hour from 5-6 and then reception from 6-10… 4 hours isn’t that much time. And I think that’s just part of the issue. The bride and groom really couldn’t relax. And the staff was stressed out because the meals weren’t being rolled out soon enough, the cake not cut on time, this didn’t happen soon enough, or that happened too soon. I’m not placing blame on the reception site or the couple. All I’m trying to get at is the key to every couples day, the key to life… Communication…. If things are off schedule, the reception coordinator or couple should speak to one another that’s all… Keep it simple, hey, let’s do this a little later, or maybe skip that all together… Nice and simple that’s all….

 

Just communicate time lines and when things are off, let it be known to those that matter… I know that was a bit of a rant but just try to communicate and be honest with the reception site when you’re not on time. I’ve even been known to call the reception site when I know things are going a bit long for the couple…. Just some thoughts.

 

The other thing I wanted to touch on was the hair. Brides have more to do than just about any guy out there. And their hair is one of the major ones. Yesterday the bride also had new bangs… Just a quick tip, and she was still just as beautiful, but it caused her some stress. She couldn’t make them do what she wanted. So just keep it in mind… And below are a few tips on that….

 

Practice, practice, practice.

1. Time your practice session and make a list of all of the tools and products you will need.

2. Put everything in a basket and hide it away to bring out fresh and ready for your special day.

3. Schedule times for showers if you will be having relatives stay over.

4. If you are not dressing at home make sure there is a mirror and a counter or table to work from.

5. Make sure there are proper outlets, if not bring an extension cord.

6. Put on all of your pretty under things and cover up with a button down shirt or robe. This way after hair and makeup are done just slip into your gown!

Wedding Hair Dos: Is a stylist traveling to you?

1. Give exact, adequate directions and phone numbers. Many time brides give the directions they follow and forget the stylist may be coming from the opposite side of the highway.

2. Make sure you have a place set up for the stylist to work. (One bride assumed I would be working from the bathroom and one set me up in her dark bedroom until her father-in-law kicked my out so he could get dressed. Personally, I like to work from a large will lit dining room or kitchen table.)

3. Don’t assume the stylist can do extra people last minute. Make sure everyone who is having their hair done is mentioned ahead of time and arrives promptly.

4. Be ready yourself and prepare extra time for interruptions.

Wedding Hair Dos: Are you going to a salon?

1. Schedule your wedding day hair appointment at least eight weeks ahead.

2. Have a practice session at least a month ahead and bring a picture of your dress and your headpiece with you to the salon.

3. Record your travel time from the salon to where you are getting dressed.

4. Add on extra time for getting dressed and make-up if the salon is not applying it.

5. Bring a Polaroid camera to your hair appointment and take pictures of the front, side, and back.

6. Ask for more than one stylist to help with the wedding party. Three stylists for a party of six is the best bet for staying on schedule.

7. Schedule all nail appointments for the day before, this also saves time.

8. Don’t expect to get your favorite stylist to do your wedding hair is you desire an intricate Updo. This is a specialty service and best left for the resident expert.

As you now know, I am a wedding photographer located in Connecticut. This year more than any I have seen weddings on such a grand scheme to something a bit more family oriented. From 230 guests to 35. Such a different way, yet still, with out a doubt just as special. But this really makes me think about budget… Some couples need to work on a tight budget when it comes to their day, maybe they’re taking care of the tab 100%…. Other couples have the sky as their limit. There is no right or wrong, there is no way to take the special out of your day. Work with what you have and what’s realistic. Below are a couple links (just click the text) that will help you set your budget, stay on budget all while making your day a great one.

The Best Read – CNN article about a real couple and their realistic wedding

Wedding Wire Has Some Great Tips & Will Come Up Alot!

10 Rules for Every Bride

Tomorrows Post – The Cakes And Sweets…