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Some people ask why I do what I do. Why I am a wedding photographer or why I’m a portrait photographer. It’s because I love being a photographer in Ct.
There’s just something about shooting people (plus I get to say I shoot people) that strikes my fancy. When someone calls me to take portraits of their child they say “we heard you were the portait photographer in Ct. to call”… Do you know how great that makes me feel! Or when a dog shows up at the studio, all bouncing around… Taking pet portraits is also a great thing! Each and every soul has an energy that makes them unique. And that’s what so much of it is about. Not stealing the soul, but freezing it for a split second and holding that part for ever.
That’s what being a wedding photographer in Ct. is all about, it’s what being a ct. portrait photographer is all about and it’s what being one of the top pet potrait photographers in New England is all about!!!
Shine on everyone
~Tim
Some may wonder, you’re wedding photographer in Ct. or a destination wedding photographer. What do you know about having, of all things, a bachelorette party. Well ya see, as a wedding photographer I do a ton of research non-stop about weddings, tips for weddings, ideas for weddings, wedding themes and more. See, being a wedding photographer doesn’t mean my job stops there because I believe in helping across the board. And recently, one of my brides, who I must say just got a stunning wedding dress from J. Crew, asking me about her bachelorette party. At first I wasn’t sure what to think, then it hit me… Tell her what you know and what you don’t, go find the answers.
SO… A Bachelorette Party, I mean come on, you’re probably going to hear about things that happened at the bachelor party so why not have your own. And I’m not talking about a diamond crusted Tiara with an oiled up stripper… (unless that’s what you want)… I’m talking some other great options. So here we go. From your wedding photographer to you…
First off, when does it take place. Really anytime through your engagement. But you should be sure to keep it clear from the last week of hectic planning. So it just comes down to when all the girls can get together. Which may not be easy with bridesmaides generally spread across the country. And with them, one has to wonder who’s in charge. Really anyone that wants to grab the reins can go for it! And anyone who wants to help can jump right in…
Who comes, anyone you’re close to. They don’t have to be on the wedding list but should be close pals and no more than about 20. And that may even be over kill…
It seems like they don’t really stand still. The bachelorette party seems to always be on the move. From bars to clubs to movies and more. But don’t forget about other ways of celebrating that may be just as much and at times more fun!!!
Kayaking trip, resorts, spas, beaches!!! All make for great times!
Some ideas and trends:
OK – so you’re not the table dancing, inflatable phallus type of bachelorette. Relax – there are plenty of other ways to celebrate your final send-off. Here are some g-rated bachelorette party alternatives:
Adventure Bachelorette – go hiking, rafting, horseback riding, or camping.
Spa Party – gather the girls for some serious pampering
Fondue Party – or any other style of intimate dinner party (fondue just seems to make things more fun!)
Beach Weekend – enjoy some sun, sand – plenty of tropical beverages.
Casino Night – all bets are on! Set up game tables, break out the decks, and test your luck with a roll of the dice.
Wine Tasting – hit up Napa Valley (or the nearest winery) for a day – or weekend – filled with good wine, good conversation, and good friends
I completely understand when people believe I’m just a Ct. wedding photographer in Central Ct. But here’s the thing, really two things, The first, I don’t believe that there’s a “JUST” to being a wedding photographer. It is, after all, one of the most important factors to a wedding day. The other is being located in Ct.
I was recently asked about a wedding I shot in Portland Oregon. Just about as far away as I can get while staying in the country. They wanted to know why I enjoyed being a destination wedding photographer. And I guess the first thing that I loved was how one couple knew me as a ct. wedding photographer while now, this other couple knows me as a destination wedding photographer.
Really they’re both one in the same but I’m sure, if you asked any of the destination wedding photographers out there, it’s about so many great things. From the aspects of travel, to the new location, to still being part of your day. When shooting a wedding that’s out of my area it becomes more of a journey. A journey that brings me into this couples day, so much closer.
So what is it about being a destination wedding photographer that I love??? Quite simply, the adventure, being invited into a couples day and capturing the adventure they’re on. The moments, the energy of this new location and the love of coming together while away in a distant location. All so great!!!
As many of you know from reading these posts I’m a New England and Ct. wedding photographer that enjoys shooting weddings across the country. And since this all began I’ve come to realize that each and every couple feels something different about their day. From the joy to the stress, each wedding and engagement is different. The last post was about the fresh engagement, this post will be about what you should do next. What are the first steps to planning for your big day?
Well, before you even start planning you should enjoy these few weeks of the new “status”… Enjoy that he just “popped the question” and be ready for a heavy dosing of questions. From dates to colour schemes and more. And while the questions will roll in, don’t hesitate to tell those with wonders that you are just taking a few weeks to enjoy the engagement. If parents haven’t met now is surely the time. Get the families together. But most of all, enjoy these few weeks before really running full steam with the planning…
So now what. What are the key steps to planning for your big wedding day???
Before anything else, Plan your budget! Every single piece of your day needs to revolve around this budget so things not only get kept in certain ranges, but also making sure there is a piece of the pie put aside for each and every part of the day. Bring anyone involved in the budget together. It’s no longer up to just the brides side of the family to pay for the day. And weddings are becoming more costly so take the time to sit down and really plan this one out. The budget will really tell you what kind of day you can have. From the amount of guests to venues. This is surely the main key.
The guest list. There are many places to find tips for your wedding day, some of those places will tell you different things about the 2nd step. But think about this, the guest list truly tells you the size of your day. You can’t cram 250 people into a venue that only holds 100, you can’t invite 300 people when your budget on meals will only feed 200… So you need to get this list worked out. It can change a little but before you can make any other contracts work you need to know how many people will be showing.
Next is your wedding venue! Where will your wedding be held. From the ceremony to reception. Now that you have your budget set out, and your guest list, you can decide what locations will fit your needs. From size to pricing, to location. This is key because many venues book out a year in advance. So you really can’t decide on a wedding date until you book your wedding venue, and you also can’t take on any other contracts for the wedding photographer, cake designer and more until the date is set. So VENUE VENUE VENUE….
Once you have these steps in place everything else will start to just flow right along…
Shine on,
~Tim
I recently read a post somewhere about a couple that did things 100% their way. From their wedding photographer from Seattle Washington to the ceremony location under the bridge by a large troll statue. It was their day! And to top it all off they not only had veagan pastries and other delectable stuff, but their own home made brew… !!! More info on their wedding here http://offbeatbride.com/2008/11/stress-free-vegan-wedding#more-1401
Now as I sit here as a Ct. wedding photographer I can’t help but think back on this year. From the wedding I shot in Portland Oregon to another that was only 10 minutes from the house. They were all just beautiful days. I guess my real question is how much of “YOU” do you actually put into your day??? Do you get pushed in certain directions from the grooms mother? Are you talked into things you may not really care for from the venue??? Then stop! Seriously, it’s your day and the post above makes that ever so clear! From her not only proposing, but him also taking her last name. Seriously, worth reading, it’s actually pretty damn cute of them!
But again, STOP. Sit back, look at yourself and what you truly want in your wedding day. What will make it yours. From the smallest of details to the largest of ordeals. What will make it your day????
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